The bank of mom and dad is the de facto safety net for many young Americans. However, Rylie from San Antonio, Texas, doesn’t seem to realize just how much her parents clean up her bad financial decisions.
At 20 years old, Rylie has already managed to switch college majors several times and at one point accumulated $4,000 in credit card debt. She laughs off her reckless decisions as the consequence of “girl math” on a recent episode of Caleb Hammer’s show “Financial Audit” on YouTube.
“This is not a joke,” responds Hammer.
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On top of managing hefty debt, she spends a ludicrous amount of her income on rent.
Rylie doesn’t seem to realize the impact of her personal spending habits.
Reckless spending
Rylie’s a part-time student and a full-time receptionist at a local budget hotel. Her monthly income is around $2,000, which could be enough to live on if she didn’t have a budgeting problem.
Rylie spends $1,400 a month — 70% of her income — on rent. That’s above the average rent in San Antonio, which is $1,290 according to RentCafe. In fact, 24% of apartments in the city can be rented for $1,000 or less.
“You cannot afford it,” Hammer explained. General wisdom among finance experts is that housing costs should account for about 30% of a person’s income.
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Overspending on housing leaves little room for Rylie’s other expenses. However, that hasn’t stopped her from frequently eating out and shopping online. These expenses are funded from her credit cards. Her credit card debt, at its peak, was around $4,000.
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By comparison, Gen Z Americans — aged 18 to 26 — have an average of $3,262 in credit card debt, according to Experian’s latest consumer debt report. This cohort has been borrowing at a faster rate than others. Gen Z’s total debt balance grew 15.4% in 2023.
Younger Americans might also have access to another source of credit: their parents.
Bank of Mom and Dad
When Rylie’s parents realized her credit card balances were unsustainable, they stepped in and paid most of it off.
Hammer accuses her parents of serving as enablers and an invisible safety net. This isn’t unusual for someone her age. In fact, 61% of Gen Z say they are somewhat dependent on their parents for financial support, according to research from Experian. Around 37% of both (Gen Z and Millennials) say their parents did not teach them about personal finances.
Hammer advises Rylie’s mom, who appeared in-studio but not on-camera, to stop funding her reckless spending and demand behavioral change in return for financial assistance. He suggests Rylie pay off her remaining credit card balance of $1,418 herself to learn how to manage her own finances and be responsible.
He believes she can manage the minimum monthly payments based on her current income.
“You can easily fit that in your budget,” Hammer said. “Then what you’re learning, for the first time in your life, is how to sacrifice your finances [and be] an adult.”
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